This email was submitted anonymously on October 9th at 12:19pm (est) Below are our responses...
"Hello,
I would like to remain anonymous in this e-mail. I have been carrying on a relationship with a man on and off for over 3 years. During our last "off" period he started dating someone who I despise. This was not intentional as I never told him about her and she never knew about us. We are now back together and she won't stop contacting him. What would you do about this?
Signed,
Distraught"
WW @Mocha3Badd Do: Welp, If you're dating him AGAIN. His communication with ALL Exs should be OFF AGAIN. No matter if you despise her or don't give two shits about her. The responsibility is on him to decide that he is committed to YOU. Your feelings towards her don't even matter in this scenario but of course you can use how you feel about her as leverage to show him how serious you are about THAT particular person and his involvement with her. But remember the golden rule about Exs. "If SHE's still calling, it's cause HE's Still answering" So maybe you have a bigger problem on your hands... sounds Triangular AF to me.
WW #MeanGirlRo Do: Ex's are ex's for a reason. At a certain point in life you should've been done with the back and forth. You should always express yourself! yes she is an issue because you despise her so much but it's not you him and her it's you and him. If he's not gonna agree to just that equation you need to swiftly remove yourself from that situation.
"Hello,
I would like to remain anonymous in this e-mail. I have been carrying on a relationship with a man on and off for over 3 years. During our last "off" period he started dating someone who I despise. This was not intentional as I never told him about her and she never knew about us. We are now back together and she won't stop contacting him. What would you do about this?
Signed,
Distraught"
WW @Mocha3Badd Do: Welp, If you're dating him AGAIN. His communication with ALL Exs should be OFF AGAIN. No matter if you despise her or don't give two shits about her. The responsibility is on him to decide that he is committed to YOU. Your feelings towards her don't even matter in this scenario but of course you can use how you feel about her as leverage to show him how serious you are about THAT particular person and his involvement with her. But remember the golden rule about Exs. "If SHE's still calling, it's cause HE's Still answering" So maybe you have a bigger problem on your hands... sounds Triangular AF to me.
WW #MeanGirlRo Do: Ex's are ex's for a reason. At a certain point in life you should've been done with the back and forth. You should always express yourself! yes she is an issue because you despise her so much but it's not you him and her it's you and him. If he's not gonna agree to just that equation you need to swiftly remove yourself from that situation.
WW @FabAndFearless Do: I think that you should let your partner know the situation with you & his ex. Then leave it up to him to handle her. He needs to let her know that he's in a relationship & she's disrespecting that. There really is no room for you to check her because she doesn't know about you.
WW @xoEirika Do: If he is now your man, he should not have any other female blowing up his phone. If she keeps contacting him, it's because he is giving her reasons to. Sounds to me like you should let him loose and find another!
*Remember, we're only giving you our #Advice. We cant hold you or wipe away your lonely tears at night. So keep that in mind...*
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